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		<title>Reclaiming your identity as a new Mom</title>
		<link>https://catskidschaos.com/2026/04/17/reclaiming-your-identity-as-a-new-mom/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Apr 2026 11:25:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[motherhood]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Motherhood and mental health]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reclaiming your identity]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Are you interested in reclaiming your identity as a new mom? When you are a parent, it can feel like you are losing yourself completely in the role of mother and father. That’s understandable but it is also something that you can correct and this, in the long term, will make you a far stronger [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://catskidschaos.com/2026/04/17/reclaiming-your-identity-as-a-new-mom/" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">Reclaiming your identity as a new Mom</a> appeared first on <a href="https://catskidschaos.com" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">CatsKidsChaos</a>.</p>
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		<title>My cosy end of day self care routine</title>
		<link>https://catskidschaos.com/2024/11/21/my-cosy-end-of-day-self-care-routine/</link>
		
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Nov 2024 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Identity Lingerie]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[looking after me]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self care]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self care routine]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Sharing a collaborative post with some of my cosy end of day self care routine, that helps to keep me mostly sane. As a busy working mum, I often find my needs may come last, as I juggle lots of balls or plates, spinning in the air. Home education, work, parenting, marriage, being a friend, [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://catskidschaos.com/2024/11/21/my-cosy-end-of-day-self-care-routine/" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">My cosy end of day self care routine</a> appeared first on <a href="https://catskidschaos.com" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">CatsKidsChaos</a>.</p>
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		<title>Building a Self Care Routine That Actually Works</title>
		<link>https://catskidschaos.com/2024/10/31/building-a-self-care-routine-that-actually-works/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[CatsKidsChaos]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Oct 2024 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[I am not just "mum"]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self care as a mum]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self care routine]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self care tips]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Let’s talk about self care and having a self care routine that actually works. No, not the Instagram-worthy bubble baths and overpriced candles (though those are lovely if that’s your jam). I’m talking about the real, messy, sometimes boring stuff that keeps you from falling apart when life feels like it’s held together with duct [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://catskidschaos.com/2024/10/31/building-a-self-care-routine-that-actually-works/" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">Building a Self Care Routine That Actually Works</a> appeared first on <a href="https://catskidschaos.com" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">CatsKidsChaos</a>.</p>
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		<title>Pack my work bag with me</title>
		<link>https://catskidschaos.com/2024/04/15/pack-my-work-bag-with-me/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[CatsKidsChaos]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Apr 2024 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[I am not just "mum"]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Nordace]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[pack my work bag with me]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[what's in my bag]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[working mum]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>A little glimpse into my working mum life, packing my work bag with me, as I get ready for a week of work, home educating my son, and mum life and trying to keep organised whilst I juggle it all. I currently work 15/16 hours a week, out of the home and whilst it&#8217;s not [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://catskidschaos.com/2024/04/15/pack-my-work-bag-with-me/" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">Pack my work bag with me</a> appeared first on <a href="https://catskidschaos.com" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">CatsKidsChaos</a>.</p>
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		<title>The cat&#8217;s pyjamas, or something special for Mum?</title>
		<link>https://catskidschaos.com/2024/01/31/the-cats-pyjamas-or-something-special-for-mum/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[CatsKidsChaos]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2024 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
				<category><![CDATA[I am not just "mum"]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Identity Lingerie]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[New Pyjamas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Selfcare]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[silk pyjamas]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s no secret that I am a big fan of self care but recently might have neglected that for myself, so when Identity Lingerie asked me if I would like to practice some self love and selfcare with their support and kindly sent me some beautiful new pyjamas, I was inspired to get back on [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://catskidschaos.com/2024/01/31/the-cats-pyjamas-or-something-special-for-mum/" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">The cat&#8217;s pyjamas, or something special for Mum?</a> appeared first on <a href="https://catskidschaos.com" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">CatsKidsChaos</a>.</p>
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		<title>Learning public speaking skills</title>
		<link>https://catskidschaos.com/2023/05/30/learning-public-speaking-skills/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 May 2023 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Public speaking skills]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tips for good public speaking]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>This is a collaborative post, which I hope is helpful to my readers about learning public speaking skills. If, like me, public speaking, or even the idea of public speaking, is something that fills you with dread, you may want to read on. I am not a natural public speaker and public speaking doesn&#8217;t come [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://catskidschaos.com/2023/05/30/learning-public-speaking-skills/" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">Learning public speaking skills</a> appeared first on <a href="https://catskidschaos.com" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">CatsKidsChaos</a>.</p>
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		<title>Useful Accounting Tips When You’re Going it Alone</title>
		<link>https://catskidschaos.com/2023/04/20/useful-accounting-tips-when-youre-going-it-alone/</link>
		
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Apr 2023 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[accounting]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self employed]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[tax returns]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[useful accounting tips]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>This is a collaborative post sharing some useful accounting tips that I find helpful as a self employed working mum. I hope you find them helpful too. While running your own business is the ideal lifestyle for many of us, it’s not all glamour and expense accounts. There’s a lot that needs to happen behind the [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://catskidschaos.com/2023/04/20/useful-accounting-tips-when-youre-going-it-alone/" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">Useful Accounting Tips When You’re Going it Alone</a> appeared first on <a href="https://catskidschaos.com" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">CatsKidsChaos</a>.</p>
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		<title>Do your own accounts or outsource to professionals?</title>
		<link>https://catskidschaos.com/2023/02/23/do-your-own-accounts-or-outsource-to-professionals/</link>
		
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[CatsKidsChaos]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2023 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[accounts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[managing your business finances]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[things to consider as a self employed person]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>This is a collaborative post sharing the pros and cons of doing your own accounting as a small business owner, and whether deciding to call in a professional is a good idea. I hope it&#8217;s helpful. I am partially employed and partially self employed but I have been fully self employed as well. When I [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://catskidschaos.com/2023/02/23/do-your-own-accounts-or-outsource-to-professionals/" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">Do your own accounts or outsource to professionals?</a> appeared first on <a href="https://catskidschaos.com" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">CatsKidsChaos</a>.</p>
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		<title>Bad habits from Covid Lockdowns &#8211; my little Tiktok problem</title>
		<link>https://catskidschaos.com/2022/05/27/bad-habits-from-covid-lockdowns-my-little-tiktok-problem/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 May 2022 17:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[Sadakatsiz]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Tiktok]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Turkish drama series]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>My name is Karen and I have a little Tiktok problem. When the first Covid Lockdown hit, in March 2020, one thing the husband and I swore we wouldn&#8217;t do was get into more social media habits than we already had. Then we fell into the black hole that is Tiktok. Not everyone&#8217;s favourite and [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://catskidschaos.com/2022/05/27/bad-habits-from-covid-lockdowns-my-little-tiktok-problem/" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">Bad habits from Covid Lockdowns &#8211; my little Tiktok problem</a> appeared first on <a href="https://catskidschaos.com" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">CatsKidsChaos</a>.</p>
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		<title>Graveyards and cemeteries are fascinating.</title>
		<link>https://catskidschaos.com/2022/04/03/graveyards-and-cemeteries-are-fascinating/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Apr 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<category><![CDATA[cememteries]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[graveyards]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[taphophile]]></category>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I always thought I was a little weird that I find graveyards and cemeteries fascinating. I always have, all of my life. There is nothing more interesting than seeing the graves of people, and very old cemeteries are so peaceful, and a good place to sit, think about life and just be. There is something [&#8230;]</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://catskidschaos.com/2022/04/03/graveyards-and-cemeteries-are-fascinating/" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">Graveyards and cemeteries are fascinating.</a> appeared first on <a href="https://catskidschaos.com" data-wpel-link="internal" target="_self" rel="follow">CatsKidsChaos</a>.</p>
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