It’s not about dieting, it’s about sticking to your healthy eating resolutions and we have a helpful guest post by By Dr Bunmi Aboaba, Food Addiction Coach sharing how you can do that and have a healthier relationship with food.
January can be a tough month: back to work after the festive break; miserable weather; tax returns. And many of us crank up the tough-o-meter by adding new year resolutions into the mix. In 2019, a widespread study found that losing weight and improving fitness were the most popular resolutions made by far. The top three resolutions of that year were based around health and included:
Exercising more – 47%
Losing weight – 44%
Improving diet – 41%
Here’s another percentage for you: nearly 25% of us fail to keep our resolutions. So what actions can we take to make them stick?
First, think about your triggers. And then plan.
Do certain situations, feelings, moods or times of day prompt you to overeat? If so, it is likely you are being triggered. Triggers are habitual and operate unconsciously and will have you reaching for food, even when you’re not hungry, to satisfy an unmet need.
Therefore, it’s critical to identify your triggers and how they contribute to your negative behaviours towards food and eating.
What are your trigger foods?
What foods can you never resist?
They’re likely to be highly refined carbohydrates as these are particularly addictive and satisfying due to having high concentrations of sugar, salt, and fat. These types of foods release feel-good hormones, which keep you wanting more!
Take some time to outline the specific foods you find hard to resist so that you can become more aware of your personal food triggers.
Additionally, try to understand what emotions and environments trigger you to self-sabotage.
Do you crave certain foods when stressed, sad, or happy?
Do you find it hard to resist foods when in certain situations or with particular people?
By acknowledging your triggers, you are taking the first step in gaining control of your eating habits.
Set SMART Goals
As a food addiction coach, I recommend that all my clients set themselves SMART goals. This acronym stands for specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and time-specific. An example of how this could be applied to a new year goal, such as exercising more, could include:
Specific – Setting a particular goal such as achieving couch to 5k.
Measurable – Logging progress each week.
Attainable – Understanding personal limitations which could prevent this goal from being reached.
Realistic – Altering the challenge accordingly and following through on a new basis rather than giving up.
Time-specific – Setting a date that this will be achieved, such as six months.
Those who do not set themselves SMART goals are the ones who are unlikely to achieve their preferred outcome. They are more likely to become disheartened, frustrated, and impatient. As a result, they lose sight of their goal and the intention behind it.
Practice Mindful Eating
How you eat and where you eat is also crucial to your fulfilment. Consider the atmosphere in which you consume your meals. To maintain healthy eating habits, you must actively consider your mind-body connection.
How can you encourage a more mindful way of eating?
Remove as many distractions as possible – Turn off the TV and remove all smart/screen devices from your mealtimes.
Eat in a positive space – Try to ensure it’s a clutter-free dining space, lay the table, use your favourite crockery, and perhaps light a candle. This will encourage you to be mindful and enjoy the moment.
Practice gratitude – Mindfully express thanks before and during your meal. This could be saying a blessing over your food or expressing thanks to yourself or the person who has prepared the meal.
Share your meals – Where possible, do not eat alone. Instead, share food with loved ones. Try and choose people with a positive attitude who will encourage and support you with your eating goals.
These practices will strengthen positive messages to your body to nurture your mind-body connection and you will begin to find fulfilment and satisfaction from the act of being present and aware at mealtimes.
Plan Your Meals
Meal planning involves thinking ahead and planning the foods you will consume. This helps ensure that you have healthy food choices to hand and are less likely to return to old habits and pick up unhealthy foods.
It is vital to focus on bringing joy and excitement into your meals rather than think about what you are missing out on. Changing what you eat requires dedication and forethought, so try and plan a week in advance.
Consider commitments, responsibilities, and who you will be eating with each day. Pay particular attention to those days when you might be tired or stressed and plan an easy option to avoid falling into detrimental stress eating habits.
Select foods that will nourish both mind and body. Think about colour, texture, flavour, and variety. This will help ensure that you do not get bored with your new eating routine.
Every meal you plan and eat should bring you health, emotional wellbeing, energy and pleasure.
A little extra help
To discover an alternative method to weight loss, healthy eating, and long-term food serenity, try my Craving Freedom course. A gentle approach to beating food cravings and developing a healthy relationship with food.
To progress and reach your goals, you must start with understanding where you’re at now. You can then set your intention of where you want to be.
Create a clear picture in your mind of where you are going and what you want to achieve. Intentions and beliefs are powerful – they will make all the difference to your journey.
It’s all to do with bringing your goals, hopes, and aspirations into conscious thought and connecting them to your why which will empower, motivate, and inspire you to keep going.
You must understand that you are not hopeless or the victim of uncontrollable urges and circumstances. Instead, remember that you hold the power to change direction and transform yourself into whatever you wish to be. This, however, requires time, honesty, and commitment.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Dr Bunmi Aboaba is a Food Addiction Coach and leading authority on food addiction, helping clients achieve a healthy relationship with food to meet long-term health goals. Dr Bunmi’s work covers the full spectrum of disordered eating, including overeating, compulsive eating, emotional eating, and other associated patterns. Dr Bunmi is creator of the R4 Method, a Food Addiction Certification to support nutritionists, nurses, teachers, health and fitness professionals, dieticians and medical clinicians to help their clients achieve long-lasting results. Dr Bunmi will be running 7-day self-care retreats for clients suffering from food addiction in 2022, and is author of Craving Freedom, a new book for those wanting to build a healthy relationship with food (published 1st Dec).
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2 “How Many People Kept Their 2020 New Year’S Resolutions? | Yougov”. Yougov.Co.Uk, 2021, https://yougov.co.uk/topics/lifestyle/articles-reports/2020/12/30/new-years-resolutions-2020-and-2021.